I finally found it.This song is one of my favourites.If you're a busy parent...listen and think about the lyrics to the song.

Cats in the Cradle
by Harry Chaplin

My child arrived just the other day
He came to the world in the usual way
But there were planes to catch and bills to pay
He learned to walk while I was away
And he was talking 'fore I knew it and as he grewHe'd say "I'm gonna be like you dad
You know I'm gonna be like you"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
"When you coming home dad"
"I don't know when
But we'll get together then
You know we'll have a good time then"

My son turned ten just the other day
He said "thanks for the ball dad come on let's play
Can you teach me to throw"
I said "not todayI got a lot to do"
he said "that's OK"
And he walked away but his smile lemme tell you
Said "I'm gonna be like him yeahYou know I'm gonna be like him"

CHORUS
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon"When you coming home dad"
"I don't know when
But we'll get together thenYou know we'll have a good time then"

Well he came from college just the other day
So much like a man I just had to say
"Son I'm proud of you can you sit for a while"
He shook his head and he said with a smile
"What I'd really like dad is to borrow the car keys
See you later can I have them please?"

CHORUS
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon"When you coming home son"
"I don't know when
But we'll get together then dad
You know we'll have a good time then"

I've long since retired and my son's moved away
I called him up just the other dayI said "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"
He said "I'd love to dad if I could find the time
You see my new job's a hassle and the kid's got the flu
But it's sure nice talking to you dad
It's been sure nice talking to you"

And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me
He'd grown up just like me
My boy was just like me

CHORUS
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man in the moon
"When you coming home son"
"I don't know whenBut we'll get together then dad
You know we'll have a good time then"